It was an extremely difficult moment for McDavid and the Oilers. Their dream of the Stanley Cup was over for this year, and before the Panthers began their celebration, Gary Bettman called out McDavid to accept the award. However, McDavid had already gone back to the locker room. In the NHL's new behind the scenes documentary, McDavid said in the moment that he wouldn't go back on the ice to accept the award.
Let's make this as clear as possible: There was absolutely nothing wrong with McDavid not accepting the Conn Smythe Trophy in person. The loss of the Stanley Cup is incredibly emotional for the players, and Connor McDavid wanted to be with his teammates at the time.
McDavid scored an incredible 42 points and broke Gretzky's playoff assist record to win the Conn Smythe Trophy. McDavid is just the second skater in NHL history to win the award in a losing effort. His individual talent is a complete marvel to the entire sport of hockey, and that's exemplified by the historical unlikelihood of this award. Surely, McDavid and the Oilers will be more motivated than ever to get back there and finish the job.